My life in sex: the man who left his wife for his dominatrix
I like to participate in scenarios with my girlfriend’s clients
I first had sadomasochistic fantasies when I was seven. The girls in my class played a game where they “imprisoned” the boys; I always let them catch me.
I started visiting dominatrixes at 24, hiding this from my girlfriend. She found out after we married and did what she could to fulfil my fantasies, but her heart wasn’t in it. She couldn’t stand the sight of her strong, successful man wanting to be abused and dominated. So I kept seeing professionals.